Peruvian women are a taste every man cannot deny his desire for once introduced or exposed to. They are extremely elegant, beautiful, classy, and commonly educated women.
Interestingly enough, more than 50% of Peruvian women come from somewhere along the lines of European ancestry, and this makes the country and its women all the more diverse and exotic!
While Peruvian women can be lots of fun, love to dance, party, adventure, and introduce you to her friends, they can also make great wives if you’re looking for something serious.
Speaking Their Language of Love
Before moving on to how to get into a serious relationship with your newfound Peruvian love, we really wanted to draw your focus to the importance of not only culture, but specifically language. A language barrier can be desirable at times, but also detrimental in other instances throughout the course of a relationship.
Therefore, it’s advisable at best to at least practice and learn basic Spanish before interacting with or attempting serious dates with Peruvian women while “courting” for your future Peruvian wife.
In many ways, Peruvian’s in general will look at an individual whom cannot speak Spanish as ‘just a tourist’ (her family might not trust or take you seriously), while others may simply interpret or write you off as ‘ignorant’, rip you off, and unfortunately even ignore you.
It’s important not to take too much offense to this, since in many instances Peruvian women as well as men are not known to be great at understanding or speaking English outside of Lima, or without having been adequately educated prior to your encounter.
Once you begin to learn their language, Spanish, only then can you attempt to immerse yourself into Peruvian culture, understand their people, and then most importantly, their incredible women. With better communication you can understand what your Peruvian woman loves, dislikes, and what she’s seeking out of a relationship with you.
Once you believe you’ve met the Peruvian woman of your dreams, you can feel free to begin using the word’s Novia-Novio (which literally translates to boyfriend and girlfriend), as people who are just in flings or not serious for one another never use these words in Peru.
This also of course would be a good time to start expressing and growing your love (Amor) for your future Peruvian bride. Peruvian women are extremely romantic, so don’t be afraid to take her for a long walk on the beach, present her with flowers, gifts, candlelight dinners, or a classy bottle of wine.
Peruvian women love to make their man smile, and their smiles are an incredible sight to see! From their beautiful skin, to their long natural hair Peruvian women take very good care of themselves, love to stay fit, and take great pride in their appearance, specifically the ways they dress—for you!
If and only when your Peruvian lover has decided that she’s equally attracted and interested in creating a potentially life-long relationship with you, will you then experience the opportunity to meet her family—which in many instances, will live pretty far away, out in a ‘province’, in many cases, as Peru suffers plenty of its own economic hardship throughout—and many Peruvians outside of Lima come from poverty.
You will find that each Peruvian woman will not only have her own tastes, but that her family will as well, and each personality and experience will be respectfully unique or different. Make sure you’re serious, because Peruvians are very passionate people—careful, big brothers do exist!
On an extremely positive note, once accepted and approved by your Peruvian loves family, you can be rest assured that they too will cater to you, showing you lots of love, loyalty, affection, and even protection!
Role Changes Up To And After Marriage
Peruvian culture is still very set on the idea of the man being the breadwinner and protector, and the woman or wife being the home caretaker and stay at home mom. With of course equal respect and balance, this works out perfectly for many couples!
However, it’s important that you learn and familiarize yourself with Peruvian common cultures, such as your woman (wife’s) desire to want to clear the plates or table after dinner—as a simple example.
It doesn’t make her your slave, it’s a sign of affection, dedication, and loyalty. Do not mistaken this for Peruvian women being submissive—as they typically are not! They are known to be very independent and self-sufficient in many ways.
Once married, you will find that your Peruvian wife will make it a point to provide and serve you in nearly every imaginable way possible. But again, it’s important that you still respect her, as well as fulfill the roles that you are expected to as her husband.
It’s worth mentioning that in Peruvian culture, it’s normal for couples to marry and start having kids in their twenties, contrary to the common thirties or above trends that arguably exist in Western culture.
While we have similarities with Peruvian culture, there’s still a strong Latin essence and dynamic to Peruvian people so it’s important that you yield to this and conform as well—just as your wife will to your culture!
As mentioned earlier, Peruvians are extremely intelligent people, and the women especially have a fascination with traveling and learning foreign languages—so even if she doesn’t speak English fluently now, don’t be surprised if in the following months she picks it up pretty quickly!