Planning Your First Meeting with Your Online Latin Girlfriend
Are you thinking about going overseas to meet a special girl you have met online? Here are some tips and ideas to help you make a simple plan to arrange your meeting with her (and have a smooth first date).
There are some important points you may want to consider when you are going to meet this person you have communicated online with. You must be feeling a bit nervous. Enjoy what you read here because it will all aid a successful meeting.
Talk About It With Someone You Trust.
Generally speaking, it was common to our society to feel shy or embarrassed about online dating. That is not the case anymore; more and more people are using online dating services for a bunch of different reasons. This should definitely not be your case if you are thinking to go and meet this person in its own country.
Talk with someone you completely trust and give this person your itinerary and contact information. Also tell this person about your first meeting arrangements and agree to contact them after you finish your date. This is a safety issue and if you really feel embarrassed about telling anyone, re-consider what you are doing.
Alternative ideas on where to meet for the first time.
There is not a set answer for this one, really depends on how comfortable you feel with this person. Everyone is different. It needs to be a place where you both will feel very comfortable. Most dating agencies will recommend having your first meeting in a public space such as a coffee shop, where you can both feel comfortable and talk.
If you are a shy person, you may want to consider going bowling or another activity that allows you slowly interaction while you have fun. Sometimes it is easier to break the ice in a situation like this. Eating is always a good way to meet. People always relax when they eat.
What to talk about?
In your first date, you want to make your girl feel comfortable with you. You should not talk about too serious or stressful issues. Check the profile of your date again and concentrate in what is important and interesting for this person. Plan specific questions to help yourself lead the conversation into things she likes.
Some recommended conversations topics are: life-goals, traveling, food and music. Don’t feel obligated to answer anything you don’t want to and don’t put pressure her either.
Everyone will need some time to adjust. Share only what you feel comfortable with and listen to your inner voice, it often knows what’s good for you.
How do you plan to get to your meeting? How you get around is something you need to consider and feel comfortable about. Having your own driver always looks better, and you know you have access to wheels at any time. This gives you the chance to end the date and leave freely.
If you don’t drive, hire someone to take you there, wait for you and take you back to your place.
Even though you may be in love and known each other for a long time, make sure you go alone to the first meeting. Don’t let anyone to pick you up in your accommodation. Different transportation will mean you can leave when you want, help when you want, and no one is being pressured.
Be Calm, positive and honest.
If you are planning of going to a foreign country to meet this girl, and you have been dating online, you must be very positive and honest to her. It is easy to get lost in our fears. Excitement can also make us say and do things we would not normally do.
Be honest about your feelings and life expectations with the other person. If it doesn’t end up well, at least you will know you were honest and try your best.
Take your notes and trim.
Make your arrangements with anticipation and double check everything. Keep looking online for more information to help you to get all the knowledge and local advice you can get. There is nothing like what you will find out for yourself when you arrive, but reading will do you a lot of good.
You can increase your relationship success, and even instant marriage, if you are very organized. It takes away the stress.